Scolding for every little thing is not the right way of parenting, it can cause deep hurt to the innocent child's mind
Every parent tries to raise their children well, but sometimes while trying to teach them the right things, you can inadvertently harm them. Scolding children repeatedly when they make a mistake has a very negative impact on their minds. Every parent should have information about this. Let's know about this.
Parenting Tips: Every parent wants to give a good upbringing to their children, for which they are a little strict with their children. To discipline them, some rules and some limits are set, which are also necessary for a better future of a child. But when some parents force children to follow rules etc. without any guidelines and control, then it starts having a negative effect on the children, which makes the relationship between parent and child tense. Due to which the behavior and personality of the child starts getting affected badly and instead of being disciplined, they start becoming undisciplined. So let's know about some other such effects of strict upbringing of children.
Children become victims of anxiety due to fear of mistakes - Due to excessive control of parents, there is pressure on the child to do the right thing all the time. Due to which a feeling of fear of failure arises in them, and they constantly remain in the fear that they will be punished if they fail. Whereas, they do not know that failure also teaches a lesson. Stressful relationship with parents- Insisting on following rules without telling the difference between right and wrong and strictly enforcing rules to remain disciplined creates a stressful situation between the child and the parents.
Development of aggressive and rebellious nature- The child, hurt by the environment of strict attitude of 'you have to do this work correctly' every time, becomes so aggressive that he becomes rebellious. In such a situation, parents have to struggle to sympathize with the child. But it has the opposite effect on the child. In which the child does the work which you do not even expect.
Problem solving and understanding skills are affected- The feeling of creativity is not developed in the child living in a strict environment, because whatever work they are doing, it is not their will, they are working under pressure. Due to which their problem solving and understanding skills are affected.
Low self-esteem- Children who grow up under strictness constantly feel that whatever they do is inferior or the worst. This leads to a feeling of frustration in them and then a low self-esteem.