Why are men often violent in relationships?
The vehicle of a relationship runs on the love and trust of both partners, but when doubt and ego enter into it, then domestic violence begins. If it is not stopped, then it can become more severe with time and can also become the reason for breaking of the relationship. It is important to know the reasons of violence and work on it.
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No relationship is always violent and not all relationships are violent. There are many reasons that can make a partner violent. Most of these include men. Men becoming violent in relationships is not limited to one country. Such cases are seen in every country and environment. In such a situation, it is worth thinking that why are men often violent in relationships? Regarding this, we talked to Dr. Rahul Chandok, Head Consultant of Mental Health and Behavioral Science at Artemis Hospital, Gurugram. He told many important things. Let's know about this in detail.
The secret is hidden in upbringing
The link of men becoming violent is related to their upbringing. In fact, many parents give different upbringing to sons from daughters since childhood. Sons are often forbidden to be emotional. If they cry, they are told that this is a girl's job, why are you crying being a boy. Such things have a very deep impact on his mind. From here, they start considering themselves special and they start feeling tough. This behavior becomes the reason for them becoming violent in the future.
Films and social media have a big hand
Social media, films and web series have also promoted this kind of violence. By watching films like Animal or Kabir Singh, a teenager growing up forms the notion in his mind that he can make a place in his partner's heart only by being physically strong and violent. Many types of posts on social media also inspire teenagers to violence. All these things formed in favor of violence in the adolescent mind can later make them violent in their relationship.
Doubt also promotes this thing
Doubt plays a very big role in destroying any relationship. In which women often suffer. In the name of vulgar jokes on means of entertainment and social media, seeds of doubt are sown in the mind. With time, this seed of doubt grows and takes the form of a violent tree.
Everyone needs to make efforts together
Everyone needs to make efforts together to ensure that no one is violent in relationships. Parents should try to instill sensitivity in the minds of their sons from childhood and teach them to respect relationships. As a society, we should show solidarity against such content, which is becoming a medium to break families and relationships.
